I see this on 4chan all the time. You’ve got this demand among the NEETs that their partners look like supermodels, then a bunch of screaming and crying when a woman is repulsed by their bad grooming or poor manners.
On the flip side, you’ve got the /r/RelationshipAdvice threads where “RED FLAG! DUMP HIM!” is this pre-programmed response to damned near every post. Guys who aren’t sexy enough are undateable trash. Guys who are too sexy are skeazy fuckbois (or worse… gay!)
But then you log the fuck off, touch grass, and meet dozens of happy couples of every size and shape and disposition. You even see people with disparate political philosophies dating, because not everyone is a fucking nerd obsessed with primary results and poll numbers and creating some kind of breeding program to win the next election cycle.
no, social media has brainwashed women that fat = bad gymbro/skinny = good. that’s why i gave up on dating and just gunna be chillin. being a 35 yr old NEET just chillin. fuck life, less stress is better anyways.
that was the case long before social media showed up. those people were always going to end up superficial and thus incompatible with you even if social media didn’t exist. consumerism is what caused the obsession with ego and image. social media is just another stage of consumerism.
social media has brainwashed women that fat = bad gymbro/skinny = good
My Brother in Christ, we’ve had this standard since Calvin Klein plastered half the country in heroin-sheik underwear models. You are two generations late to the party.
I’m 35 too. I’ve lived in many places. I don’t know why you’re creating this reality for yourself. But you have to change the language you use or you’ll always see things this way.
oh trust me it is. i actually deleted online dating apps after being called peter griffin even though i dont have a double or triple chin unless i really tuck my head in. im 35, i dont have time for shit like that
Ok, let me amend my position: body mass is not a universal deal breaker. There are people who will reject someone on appearance or weight, but there are many people who would find that same person attractive.
Mentally going through all the couples I know and half of them involve overweight men. Absurd to live in North America and think you can’t date if overweight, 1/3 of our continent is overweight and the majority of that is men. Over 2/3 of Canadians are in common law relationships or married at the age of 35-44. To be this deluded you have to believe basically 100% of single people are overweight, which is not true. But seeing what you type I’m guessing weight has nothing to do with it, people don’t like people with defeatist, lazy, downer personalities way more than they dislike overweight people.
App dating isn’t the only way forward, you actually have to have a life and put yourself out there. All my relationships were when I wasn’t really looking but still kept my circle of friends wide, and I’m not an extrovert.
Easier maybe, but less likely to have the best outcomes. I’m sorry dating has been bad for you, and the apps are absolutely predatory, but there’s always hope
will you date a fat guy regardless of his political alignment?
short answer: no long answer: hell nooooooooo
I see this on 4chan all the time. You’ve got this demand among the NEETs that their partners look like supermodels, then a bunch of screaming and crying when a woman is repulsed by their bad grooming or poor manners.
On the flip side, you’ve got the /r/RelationshipAdvice threads where “RED FLAG! DUMP HIM!” is this pre-programmed response to damned near every post. Guys who aren’t sexy enough are undateable trash. Guys who are too sexy are skeazy fuckbois (or worse… gay!)
But then you log the fuck off, touch grass, and meet dozens of happy couples of every size and shape and disposition. You even see people with disparate political philosophies dating, because not everyone is a fucking nerd obsessed with primary results and poll numbers and creating some kind of breeding program to win the next election cycle.
no, social media has brainwashed women that fat = bad gymbro/skinny = good. that’s why i gave up on dating and just gunna be chillin. being a 35 yr old NEET just chillin. fuck life, less stress is better anyways.
that was the case long before social media showed up. those people were always going to end up superficial and thus incompatible with you even if social media didn’t exist. consumerism is what caused the obsession with ego and image. social media is just another stage of consumerism.
Hi. When is the last time you talked to a woman? Your mom doesn’t count.
Year ago
Wild response.
My Brother in Christ, we’ve had this standard since Calvin Klein plastered half the country in heroin-sheik underwear models. You are two generations late to the party.
naw, it wasn’t this bad before. its gotten alot worse. im 35 so ive seen it all
I’m 35 too. I’ve lived in many places. I don’t know why you’re creating this reality for yourself. But you have to change the language you use or you’ll always see things this way.
I’m a gymbro and things aren’t going any better for me lol.
come to canada, insta gf
I know plenty of larger men who are happily dating. The problem isn’t the body mass.
I also know plenty of conservatives happily dating, what’s your point exactly then
oh trust me it is. i actually deleted online dating apps after being called peter griffin even though i dont have a double or triple chin unless i really tuck my head in. im 35, i dont have time for shit like that
Ok, let me amend my position: body mass is not a universal deal breaker. There are people who will reject someone on appearance or weight, but there are many people who would find that same person attractive.
i don’t believe that, but like i can’t force someone to change what their preferences are, i don’t want to change who i am. its just easier to give up
Mentally going through all the couples I know and half of them involve overweight men. Absurd to live in North America and think you can’t date if overweight, 1/3 of our continent is overweight and the majority of that is men. Over 2/3 of Canadians are in common law relationships or married at the age of 35-44. To be this deluded you have to believe basically 100% of single people are overweight, which is not true. But seeing what you type I’m guessing weight has nothing to do with it, people don’t like people with defeatist, lazy, downer personalities way more than they dislike overweight people.
App dating isn’t the only way forward, you actually have to have a life and put yourself out there. All my relationships were when I wasn’t really looking but still kept my circle of friends wide, and I’m not an extrovert.
Easier maybe, but less likely to have the best outcomes. I’m sorry dating has been bad for you, and the apps are absolutely predatory, but there’s always hope