• 1985MustangCobra@lemmy.ca
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    23 hours ago

    no, social media has brainwashed women that fat = bad gymbro/skinny = good. that’s why i gave up on dating and just gunna be chillin. being a 35 yr old NEET just chillin. fuck life, less stress is better anyways.

    • eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 hours ago

      Homey there are plenty of women who like a guy with some heft. Belly is fine as long as you’re still moving around ok and have decent grooming.

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      4 hours ago

      that was the case long before social media showed up. those people were always going to end up superficial and thus incompatible with you even if social media didn’t exist. consumerism is what caused the obsession with ego and image. social media is just another stage of consumerism.

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      22 hours ago

      social media has brainwashed women that fat = bad gymbro/skinny = good

      My Brother in Christ, we’ve had this standard since Calvin Klein plastered half the country in heroin-sheik underwear models. You are two generations late to the party.

      that’s why i gave up on dating

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          14 hours ago

          I’m 35 too. I’ve lived in many places. I don’t know why you’re creating this reality for yourself. But you have to change the language you use or you’ll always see things this way.