So I’m from Germany but I live in Korea. And especially in the beginning when I arrived here as a agile coach for a big automotive supplier company where I was supposed to teach them the new processes and so on it was terrifying.
I would do a presentation of something and then my expectation was that we would talk about parts of it and there would be follow up questions about details, etc. but more often than not there was just silence. And that would eat me up inside to a degree where some times I would complain about it and just cut the meetings short.
Over time I realized that they are comfortable sitting and thinking about what I showed them.
But it’s still difficult for me :D
Are you sure they are comfortable just sitting? Agile is extreamly dysfunctional in most companies… When I was in agile meetings at some previous jobs, I just zoned out too. Listened to music. :)
Now I’m at a company without any agile practices and it’s fucking amazing. It’s exactly like when working on projects in university. Don’t need any agile coaches. Just work and talk to manager directly about progress. It’s just so good.
We have no standups, almost no meetings. Just focused work and lots of funny chats during the day. People are happy and content.
For me, working without agile has been a game changer. I’m never going back to that. Now I’m happy again.
Agile is extremely dysfunctional
Are y’all hiring over there? That sounds amazing
Haha, touche! They would still follow the new style because their management made them.
Canada isn’t on there because we are too cold to be comfortable at any noise level
…soo, what did you all do for your Thanksgiving?
When was it?
Today! (just “filling the silence” over here)
Look down their feet and don’t elaborate
Not much, you?
UK should be in there twice. Londoners on the tube during evening rush hour are extremely comfortable with silence.
This made me wonder… What “silence” are we talking about here? “Not talking” or “no noise”?
Not talking
I was going to say, depends how far north/south you are.
Down here on the south coast you’ll be looked at with extreme scorn if you try to fire up a conversation with a stranger. As god intended. People who can willingly talk to strangers are utterly alien to me.
I grew up in the southeastern US, so I’m used to casual chitchat with strangers just being the polite thing to do. I’ve had to learn not to do so, at least in most cases, now that I live up north.
It’s especially odd because I’m an introvert by nature, but present as an extrovert because of my cultural upbringing.
If comfortable with noise was also charted, Japan would top that list as well.
I’ve never experienced such auditory and visual assault as I have there. The busy visitor centre for a national park had a door that chimed when it opened, a little doodad that sung a tinny electronic song every thirty seconds, two televisions with different audio tracks playing about the various peaceful natural wonders you’re about to experience, a vending machine that had a little ditty it would chirp out, the toilet spoke to you, saying what I can only assume to be was “Hello! Thank you for choosing me to take care of you today! I hope you had a good shit! Have a good day!”.
Oh you’re right similar in Korea, Taxis have a navigation which speaks constantly, they have the radio or TV on and they are on the phone at the same time.
So how was this measured?
with a big gray arrow
This is basically why I moved from New Jersey to Japan.
Wasn’t aware that tolerance to silence can actually be a cultural thing, that’s pretty fascinating.
In some countries, being silent is actually an interrogation technique since people tend to be uncomfortable with it and instinctually try to make some noise, be it through universal language or just talking which can make you reveal information you otherwise wouldn’t have shared.
Seems about right. But why is Zimbabwe in Red? That’s no the same continent as all the other red countries.
Actually I just found the picture online, and I have no idea what the coloring is supposed to mean.
Also what’s going on with yellow? It has Nigeria + west asia
I’m from Sweden, and it varies a lot even inside our country. People from the southern regions are more like Danish people and talk quite a bit. People from the northern most regions though, there uncomfortably comfortable with silence.
from greater stockholm, and although people here are fairly quiet i think i cant wait to see if theres a difference after moving to luleå for uni
So, in Japan they’d complain about how loud and talkative the Finns are?
Those Finns never shut up.
I’m Brazilian and I often love silence.
in turkey I could sit on the floor of a subway without issue talking with my friends at a pretty loud tone and no one would mind
I think I would be totally castrated if it was one of the Asian countries though
I’m dumb, wtf is this
A post on the fediverse.
How comfortable with silence are people in different countries.
In the immortal words of Uma Thurman:
That’s when you know you’ve found somebody special. When you can just shut the fuck up for a minute and comfortably enjoy the silence.
Some countries placed by how socially awkward it is to stay silent in a group, from more to less.
Ah So.
