A new report from the Institute for Strategic Dialogue (ISD) has found that digital hate and harassment against women rose rapidly after the U.S. presidential election. Sexist phrases like “repeal the 19th [Amendment]” and “get back to the kitchen” surged on platforms like X, TikTok, Facebook, and Reddit following President Donald Trump’s victory over Vice President Kamala Harris. Many of the most frequent comments involve calls for a decrease in women’s rights, while others have explicitly threatened women with sexual assault and harassment. Mentions of the statement “Your body, my choice”—a direct response to the reproductive justice movement’s slogan, “my body, my choice”—grew by over 4600 percent on X. The phrase also appears to have grown in popularity offline, with parents and students reporting groups of boys chanting it to girls in schools. One parent commented online, “Today my daughter was told three separate times on campus ‘your body, MY choice.’ The third group of boys told her to ‘sleep with one eye open tonight.’”
This started on Wednesday, almost immediately after Trump’s victory was announced. By Friday it was already being reported in grade schools because asshole parents enjoy raising asshole sons, and Trump tells people that it’s ok to be the absolute worst human being they can be.
I have a friend who is a hard Republican. We generally don’t talk politics, but after this started last week he was posting things online being offensive towards women and POC (and the whole “illegals took my job and healthcare”) so I finally had to call him out. His response was basically that he wasn’t aware of any increased discrimination happening against women, therefore he didn’t believe it was happening. I’ve known the guy for 40 years but this may be the thing that breaks our friendship. He claims to be an advocate for people’s rights yet he is painfully unaware of the world around him.
last week he was posting things online being offensive towards women
he wasn’t aware of any increased discrimination happening against women
Umm…
Perhaps he has always posted that much misogynistic stuff so technically it isn’t an increase?
Hard to say for sure. He’s on Facebook so I don’t have a way to see what he posts, but my wife still has an account there and said he’s in some of the same groups as her. She’s pretty aware of what he’s posting and they’ve actually had conversations in person about the whole immigration thing. The rest… yeah I just don’t know.
Republican
advocate for people’s rights
You really can’t be both at the same time.
After this election I’ve had to cut a bunch of people out of my life, even relatives. A lot of them saying such wonderful things as “trump’s just saying things, he doesn’t actually mean anything he’s saying.” And then they’d get defensive when I’d ask them why they votes for him then if he doesn’t mean anything he says.
It’s really hard to cut people out of your life but afterwards it’s amazing realizing that you don’t need to tip toe around things that may be vaguely political (or explicitly) anymore to not start an argument.
Republican
advocate for people’s rights
You really can’t be both at the same time.
Of course you can, you’re just missing the subtext:
Advocate for people like me’s rights
Right wing beliefs have always been about empowering the “I’m alright, Jack” types (I don’t know if that phrase is known in the US, but here is an explanation if not). Purely for helping the powerful stay powerful, at the expense of everyone else.
Republican
advocate for people’s rights
You really can’t be both at the same time.
Of course you can, you’re just missing the subtext:
Advocate for people like me’s rights
American?
“Your dick, my knife”
Your rectum, my steel toe. Your eye socket, my bat… My choices for their bodies are endless!
That already happened to like 90% of us thanks to the same cultists.
Dude. I think circumcision is barbaric too, but there’s a fucking time.
the time is now old man
Oh, then these misogynists need to watch their words and actions lest they lose even more. Eunuchs can’t forcibly impregnate anyone.
(For clarification I am very anti infant circumcision, everyone’s body their own choices)
I remember reading some headline that reads:
“alt-right women frustrated at alt-right men about their misogyny. seeks change within the movement”
or something like that.
Leopard. Face. Etc…
I remember that too. I also remember reading a headline about a Brazilian far-right group travelling to the US to join a KKK meeting, then being upset that the KKK weren’t particularly welcoming towards them.
The stupidity is absolutely incredible.
Was it this one, from 2017?
My daughters have to live in this shit hole now. I am both angry and sad that it appears we are moving backwards.
I will fucking end someone if I hear them say this or anything like it to my daughter.
I never understood since women could vote that there isn’t a woman’s political party or movement.
There isn’t a workers’ party, either. The US is one of the few industrialized nations that doesn’t have one.
Because our democracy is stale
It’s as stale as our collective taste for it apparently. We’d have had pro reform politicians elected to power otherwise.
Because the first-past-the-post system makes it very unlikely for more parties to emerge.
I’ve started getting cat called at night while walking my dog. I live in a red area and I dress crappy and I’m middle aged. Today I decided to change my walking schedule and location.
Th 4B movement isn’t a political statement. At this point, it’s simply self-defense.
We have reached a great filter for society. If you are a woman and care about your rights you just need to know how a man voted to determine their value. You gotta dump if they voted for Trump.
I legitimately know a woman who’s divorcing her husband, finding out he was a Trump supporter was the final straw. They’ve been in a rough spot for the last year or so, he doesn’t cook/clean at all.
She was going to leave him a year ago but tried to make it work, finding out he was a secret Trumper sealed the deal for her.
Make it self-defencier and get a concealed carry license. Your body my choice is a rape threat.
There is nothing wrong with being a gun owner so long as you do it responsibly. This means going to the range weekly and not just putting it in the safe after buying it.
Handguns are there because you lack the upper body strength to fight off an attacker. 4B stops no rapist.
Handguns are there because you lack the upper body strength to fight off an attacker.
That’s not what firearms are. They are killing tools. Plain and simple. Not “self-defence” tools. Killing tools. The US military does not provide it’s personel with firearms to “self-defend” themselves from rape.
4B stops no rapist.
How does a handgun stop a woman from marrying a rapist or ending up in a relationship with one?
Your understanding of the term “self-defence” isn’t based on reality.
They include the phrase being directed at them within schools or chanted by young boys in classes.
Young boys are following the misogynist Pied Piper and all the parents are just letting it happen. FFS
I really, REALLY hope i hear someone say this around me. I’m still trying to decide what choices i will unleash on their body…
“your face, my fist”
2024
The last year voicechat was enabled on my copy of Team Fortress 2.
you don’t wanna know
Now let’s all make sure it won’t escalate to the point of current South Korea
Edit: I have no idea how did my autocorrect change of to I’d
Relevant videos by Moon Channel (warning: LONG):
Can you give a tl:dr?
This is a continuation of hype trying to stir up more anger. Please don’t buy into this BS. Practically/virtually no one believes the phrase “your body, my choice.” I’d say probably 0.0001 of the population actually believe that that crap.
Although, there are plenty of assholes who will parrot that phrase as satire just to get a rise out of people. Probably 0.01.
You probably won’t ever get a chance to react to someone in person saying, “Your body, my choice.”
Let’s not give this group of haters a louder voice than they deserve, and let’s focus on important things like love and tolerance.
There are actual statistics in this article, unlike these which I think you made up.
You sound like those people saying that COVID was no big deal because “more people die in auto accidents”. How many people have to be affected before you deem it newsworthy?
Did you read the article?
I am asking genuinely.
a lack of an answer tells me one of two things.
- they have not read it
- they cannot read
judging on their response (or lack therof), I’m going to guess they can’t read.
Practically/virtually no one believes the phrase “your body, my choice.”
It is “practically/virtually” the ideology of pro-rape right-wingers everywhere. Why the fuck do you think they spent so much effort to crush abortion rights?
How prevalent the use of the exact phrase ‘Your body, my choice’ is irrelevant when the intent behind it is so common in other espoused rhetoric. The fact is that too fucking many people are happy to tear up a woman’s right to self determination and force women into situations that put their lives at risk. I don’t think we can ignore any rhetoric that supports or gives cover to such attacks on a woman’s autonomy.
At this point I would not be surprised if we started seeing feminist groups becoming armed and violent. And as much as I have a disdain for political violence, I don’t think I could condemn them for doing so.
At this point I would not be surprised if we started seeing feminist groups becoming armed and violent. And as much as I have a disdain for political violence, I don’t think I could condemn them for doing so.
This is crazy… misguided, hypocritical, extreme, and unsafe. Etc.
This is crazy… misguided, hypocritical, extreme, and unsafe. Etc.
Just like back alley abortions. Both easily avoided by respecting the bodily and reproductive autonomy of women.
Although, there are plenty of assholes who will parrot that phrase as satire just to get a rise out of people. Probably 0.01.
In the words of Kurt Vonnegut: we are what we pretend to be.
