Apparently it’s a trend that most men just receive wallets rather than buying them

  • SOB_Van_Owen@lemm.ee
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    4 days ago

    I never got one as a gift I really wanted to use. Care nothing for style, but look for practicality for me. After much trial and error have found a trifold made of sailcloth to be most lasting and useful for my sloppy wallet needs.

  • beefbot@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 days ago

    YOU CAN BUY YOURSELF ANYTHING YOU WANT ESPECIALLY A WALLET

    srry this just reads as “duh my bros is it geyy to git yerself a wallet” NO JUST BUY ONE

  • RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    When I was younger, yeah.

    I think wallets are for people nobody knows what to buy for. Like getting them a tie. No hobbies, no interests, no personal declarations of what they might like. Or people just don’t know them well enough to get anything other than some generic gift like a wallet.

  • TriflingToad@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    I bought mine

    Works well as a lanyard too, ADHD would be having me leave it everywhere if it weren’t strapped to my noggin

  • dumbass@leminal.space
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    7 days ago

    I keep getting wallets as gifts even though everyone knows I don’t use a wallet, I have a collection of wallets that will never feel the back of my ass.

  • kerrigan778@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    I have only gotten one wallet as a gift ever, it was a family heirloom of sorts. All my other wallets I have used I have bought myself

  • Furbag@lemmy.world
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    6 days ago

    I know I bought my last couple of wallets from the same place, usually because I walk past the wallet display stand, see a new one that I fancy, and decide on a whim to buy it. I get good mileage out of them, and they are generally inexpensive so even if I trade in every few years, it’s still nice to have a fresh wallet every now and again. I occasionally swap between bifold and trifold as well. One thing I know is I can’t do the minimalist design ones, I have too much shit in my wallet that I need just often enough to warrant carrying them around all the time (lest I forget them when I actually need them) but the desire to have the slimmest and most compact shape is definitely strong too. The two forces battle each other in my mind, and I usually settle for larger size in the end for convenience rather than comfort.

    I’m not sure if I’ve ever received a wallet as a gift before. Maybe when i was a kid, and it would have been one of those nylon ones with the zippers for pocket change and the velcro for the money section.

    I think my next wallet is going to be a really fancy one. Only thing I’m hesitating on in regard to that is I think cheaper wallet brands actually have the pulse of the everyman when it comes to design, whereas the fancier leather ones are somewhat impractical with fewer card slots, or very tight tolerances for sliding cards or money in them. I have to find just the right one, but I’m in no rush to replace my current wallet.

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    7 days ago

    I was taken to the store by my step father and he made me spend my money on a wallet that I no longer had money to put inside of. I have bought all of my wallets myself.

  • Rev. Layle@lemm.ee
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    7 days ago

    I always buy mine, and I would never ever tell anyone to buy me a wallet. I am pretty picky these days on what I want for a wallet. My wife is the closest person that could go buy me wallet and generally get the right kind, even then she’ll run it by me before pulling the trigger on such a purchase, to make sure I would use it

  • just some guy@sh.itjust.works
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    7 days ago

    My last 3 wallets I bought for myself. I don’t think I’ve been gifted a wallet since my teens. I’d definitely advise against anyone I knew wanting to buy me a wallet, I’m very particular in the kind I like and chances are very high I wouldn’t use the gifted wallet, or I’d try to return it.

  • jet@hackertalks.com
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    7 days ago

    Have a weird / old wallet and people will try to upgrade you.

    I had a gaffer tape wallet for many years… People couldn’t resist trying to replace it

    • confusedpuppy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      7 days ago

      I had a very different reaction to my duct tape wallet. I saw a slim, front pocket design online that was exactly what I was looking for in a wallet but I was unable to find one to buy. This was around the time that front pocket wallets just started to become a fad with the mininalism community so they were still quite uncommon.

      Used an old thin plastic board as a frame and duct taped the outside. One pocket for cards, one for money and a stretchy band to slip over to prevent things from accidentally falling out.

      Everyone loved it because it was so unique I guess. Kept adding more tape to repair it as it aged but eventually I retired it because the old glue was smearing all over my cards and money.

      I made many great memories with that wallet since it travelled with me around the world for a good number of years.

      • dingus@lemmy.world
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        7 days ago

        I’m into carrying the least amount of non-bulky things possible with me. I used to keep my driver’s license and credit card in between my phone and phone case. When I switched phones, the form factor made it so I couldn’t do that anymore. But I stumbled into a listing for a cheap elastic fabric wallet and pulled the trigger. I absolutely love it. It works perfectly for my needs, has an incredibly small footprint, and has a pull tab so that I can easily slide my card out when needed. I’ve had the same one for 2 years now. It goes in my pocket daily and hasn’t seem to shown much signs of wear.

        Mine looks like this.

        There are only 2 main downsides I’ve found to this design.

        1. It bends your cards over time. This doesn’t bother me. It’s really a cosmetic issue, imo. Cards still work fine with a slight curve in them. Once they get curved in one direction you might just want to try popping them in the other way.

        2. If you put, for example, 5 cards in the wallet for a period of time, but you eventually want to trim down to only carrying 2 cards, you’ll run into an issue. Adding more cards to the wallet stretches it out, so it may become too loose to carry less cards at some point. Once I realized this, I just figured I’d keep all of my cards in there and not trim them down. So I always have my driver’s license, 2 regular payment cards, and 2 medical related cards in my wallet. One of these cards is thinner than a regular card, so it’s kind of like I’m carrying 4.5 cards on me. Still far slimmer and pocketable than any other wallet I’ve had. Fits in women’s pockets! I love it!

        I don’t carry cash or anything, so I don’t know how well this would work for that. A wallet for cash wasn’t what I was looking for, personally. I hate carrying cash.

        Edit: I looked back at the listing I purchased from years ago. It looks like you can purchase it with or without the pull tab. I guess the photo I took is the one without the pull tab. The tab has been useful for me tho.

        Rigid brand wallets seem nice and more durable, but they are infinitely more expensive and I don’t know if it would be too rigid for comfort in my pants pockets. An elastic wallet is going to be soft and pliable.

    • Graphy@lemmy.world
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      7 days ago

      I didn’t know people getting their wallets replaced by other people was such a universal thing. Every ten years or so my wallet will start to get all stringy and fall apart and my wife or BiL will just hand me a new one. I thought they were just weird wallet snobs until this thread