I’m in my early 30’s and I’ve literally always been curious about this. I’ve never in my life had the ability to feel sexual pleasure. I’ve never been on any meds or had any sort of traumatic experiences…it’s just the way I’ve always been even if I try. I’m old enough to say that I’m way beyond simply being a “late bloomer”. It’s just something I’ll never experience.

But it often feels like I’m missing a minor sense like taste or smell or something. Everyone has always raved about the taste of dessert, but I’ve never been able to understand or experience it. Can you describe it in detail it for me? Not just the mental part, but the physical part as well?

Thank you.

Sincerely, An Outsider

  • Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    I’ve never actually done it before, because sexual thoughts bring nothing but fear and terror to my mind. They all feel like Silent Hill 2.

    No can do, taking this virginity to my grave.

      • Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world
        2·
        7 months ago

        Eh, I’m also intersex and lack the musculature to do anything with my genitals.

        It’s also a physical problem. Doesn’t really need fixing.

        It’s temporary, forty or fifty more years and I won’t have to worry none about it.