You are 100% right, there is such thing as ethical non monogamy, and if people want to have a loving relationship and not be exclusive then we should normalize it. The comments here saying “next you’ll say murder is ok because it’s human nature” is the same type of shit people said when gay marriage was allowed. “Next we’ll be saying it’s natural to marry animals!” 🙄 It’s all the slippery slope fallacy
Edit: I’m not saying that EVERY person should be non monogomous, and I’m not saying EVERY person is non monogomous for the right reasons. I’m saying it’s a real relationship style that some people do for the right reasons and everyone is consenting, and it deserves to be normalized and respected.
I use the built in wireguard VPN in my router. If you just need local network access elsewhere it’s usually really easy to setup if your router provides it. I would look into it!