I’m right-handed but I mostly use my left for things like opening doors, picking up stuff, using phone, holding food… and my right hand for things that requires fined dexterity like writing, using utensils, using keys… My friends see me using my left-hand most of the time and kept asking me why I barely use my right hand. Some people who met for the first time actually thought that I’m left-handed for some reason.

Is it really that weird to not use your dominant hand as much? I’m sure I’m not born left-handed and trained to be right-handed when I was small, I’ve been right-handed for as long as I can remember.

  • BlinkAndItsGone@lemm.ee
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    It isn’t strange to use your non-dominant hand for things, no. Maybe most people do lean toward using their dominant hand for everyday tasks, but I think it’s a matter of habit for most things. “Non-dominant” doesn’t mean “nearly useless”.

    I would say it is a bit strange for your friends to pay a lot of attention to which hand you use to unlock doors.

  • 🇨🅾️🇰🅰️N🇪@lemmy.world
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    I’m right handed.

    Shoot guns left handed because my left eye is better.

    Fishing, when I was a child I had to learn how to reel left and cast right handed but at the time reeling with the right hand seemed more natural.

    Shoot basketballs right handed but I used to practice with my left hand nonstop because I felt that most people only had one handed games, if you could drive to left or right right of the hoop, many times people asked me if I was lefty.

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    I dont think hand dominance is universal, at least not with me it isn’t. While I am right handed most of the time, there are a fair number of things that I either prefer doing left handed or cant do right handed. Eg. I can’t use chopsticks right handed. In fights I prefer to block left handed etc.

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      2 years ago

      Do you mean you block with your left hand or you block as a southpaw would? Blocking with your left hand is normal for right handed fighters.

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    You may have a measure of cross-dominance or ambidexterity. Most right-handers use their left hands in a more assistive way, such as helping to balance a heavy object that the stronger right hand is holding.

    Cross-dominance is where which hand is dominant depends on the task. That may describe you best. It sounds to me like for strength-based tasks, your left hand is dominant.

    Ambidexterity differs from cross-dominance in that for most tasks you don’t really have a dominant hand, and can use either.

    It’s also possible to be a mix of the two. You could have certain tasks you only feel comfortable doing with one or the other hand, while others are comfortable with either.

    (Source: Am an ambidextrous guy. It’s not the super power some people think it is.)

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    It’s normal for me, but I’ve been close to blind in the eye that matches my dominant hand for most of my life.

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    I wanted to be ambidextrous when I was young, but i didn’t want to work too hard on it. So I just intentionally use my left hand on most things and that led to a habit. I still write with my right hand, but I mainly use my left hand for most stuff.