• UNWILLING_PARTICIPANT@sh.itjust.works
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    11 months ago

    It’s like this weirdly stifled cry for help, because they feel the need to be seen as hard while also REALLY wanting people to know that they’ve been through a LOT and a normal person would be hurting BAD but not them because they’re so TOUGH but please please also recognize how hard just existing is for them.

    It’s a hedged cry for help.

    Like drop the macho act and ask for help, buddy. It’s ok.

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      11 months ago

      Like drop the macho act and ask for help, buddy. It’s ok.

      Easier said than done for some

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        11 months ago

        And getting the help is a lot, a lot easier said than done.

        ‘Get over it. (Slur)’ is how the majority of the Western world would react to a man reaching out to help.

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      Like drop the macho act and ask for help, buddy. It’s ok.

      And watch the people who said they cared suddenly get real scarce.

      I wish it wasn’t that way, and I’m happy it’s no longer that way for me. But there are people around you right now who know of they speak up, loved ones and friends will tell them “it’s no big deal” or “It’s all in your head” or my favorite, “man up”.

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    11 months ago

    Criminals usually have history from early adulthood or even earlier and they aren’t that smart. When a good man really snaps and goes on a “mission”, he’s really hard to catch.

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      I bring this up anytime someone’s opposed to common sense anti-violence laws, by reason of “That’s not hard to circumvent, criminals just won’t do this dumb thing”.

      Criminals are often dumb. If they were smart, they’d quite often find ways to get ahead legally, or at the very least in ways that don’t disturb others’ peace of living.

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        11 months ago

        Yes. They are disappointed self proclaimed heros of the internet who think posting Joker would bring that anarchist revolution one step closer, like if would make things any bettet.

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    11 months ago

    The word cringe is thrown about too much, but unironically posting anything with a picture of Joker is the definition of cringe.

    Edit: I am surprised how controversial this is, but I stand by it 🫡