• ansiz@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I’ve heard a saying, two things you should never do on the Internet are argue or explain. It takes up a lot of mental energy and time to do it for no reward.

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      2 months ago

      I think in many cases the people who explain things are doing a huge service. They’re silently appreciated by many. The true GOATs of the internet.

      I’ve read so many great explanations on Reddit for things in math, science, literature, etc and I feel very grateful to the people who explained them.

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        2 months ago

        Yes. The thing to remember is in many cases you aren’t explaining for the person you are debating with or answering a question for. You are doing it for others who may read the conversation.

        I’ve had things brought to light in online discussion change my mind or educate me many times. When I see someone claim these conversations are useless or a waste of time, I just think they are really setting weird criteria for what constitutes a waste of time.

        Sure, sometimes I ain’t got no time for that, but other times I do, and I figure the same is true for many others as well.

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      2 months ago

      Oh you don’t understand how much reward i get on tiktok for proving my point so much that i get blocked.

      It brings me unfathomable joy

    • Phoenicianpirate@lemm.ee
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      2 months ago

      Also trolls and propagandists employ bad faith tactics specifically to make their opposition do the bulk of the world, which they either ignore after or they just laugh at for some bullshit reason they claim is a gotcha.

      There is an Islamophobic author who has been employing shit like in his books since the 90s. It isn’t new at all.