I don’t worry about guys starting out with preconceptions about women, most of them do (as we do about men) but also recognize people are individual. it always has settled out for me over time, but maybe the guys I attract are not looking for traditional “femininity” as I don’t really ooze with it in looks or behavior. I’m delighted to be a woman for sure, but was not raised very differently from my brothers, my mom just treated us all the same.
And the first two responses in the list when I look at it:
“Having a sex drive as high as mine and not being bipolar.”
And
“Someone that is okay with not being able to engage in coitus with me.”
Shows how different we are, really that gives me hope.
This thread has been interesting to read.
I don’t worry about guys starting out with preconceptions about women, most of them do (as we do about men) but also recognize people are individual. it always has settled out for me over time, but maybe the guys I attract are not looking for traditional “femininity” as I don’t really ooze with it in looks or behavior. I’m delighted to be a woman for sure, but was not raised very differently from my brothers, my mom just treated us all the same.
And the first two responses in the list when I look at it:
“Having a sex drive as high as mine and not being bipolar.”
And
“Someone that is okay with not being able to engage in coitus with me.”
Shows how different we are, really that gives me hope.