I’ve met this person and we texted for a while for a couple of weeks. I even asked if we could go out on our own to have a coffee together, and she accepted, but asked for some time to sort things out on her life (I know that she was studying for a difficult selection for a public position. Plus, she’s a single mom). But I realized that I was starting and maintaining our interactions every single time. So I decided to give her some space, just to see if she would talk back to me. A day became a week, which became a month, and no sign of her. Did I ghosted her inadvertently, or she wasn’t interested in the first place, or she’s probably having too much happening in her life and I should be more supportive?
It’s hard to stomach but you knew the truth before asking Lemmy. Sorry, friend, but it’s probably better this way, honestly. And don’t take it personally! It’s not like this is someone who knew you inside and out and decided to avoid you. 🙏
no problem on that, people have the right to be attracted to other people or not. i was just insecure if i did something wrong or not.
Of course, and I don’t think you did, not at all. 👍