• Allero@lemmy.today
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        someone criticizes any aspect of modern online feminism

        Everyone: incel detected

        Any other option is automatically dismissed.

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          Bro you are functionally illiterate. That wasn’t a coherent criticism of a specific tendency within online feminism that dickhead made, it was a broad and concavebrained generalisation.

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            No, you’re just knee-jerking. I only said that assuming someone criticizing feminism “can’t get a date” is a very stupid take and that it’s broadly applied to every critique on every level.

            And as a punchline, it’s way past its expiration date.

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              And I’m telling you that bro wasn’t criticising shit so your point is completely irrelevant to this thread 🤷‍♀️

              And as a punchline, it’s way past its expiration date.

              The fuck would you know about dates, anyway? Seeing as how you’re clearly upset you don’t get any 😎👉👉

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            I’d say it’s representative of humanity thanks to its neutrality.

            You’re not banned left and right for having a “wrong” opinion, as Internet’s greatest ruled out. You’re out of a bubble, as much as it is possible on Lemmy as a whole.

            Mind you: I support women’s rights, I simply refuse the hate train and circlejerk that comes with a particular flavor of chronically online feminists.

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            Fair on that one!

            Indeed, most feminists are not that. It’s just that this particular flavor of it grew to be increasingly toxic, and any sort of approach to it (granted, OP went too far to go for generalizations themselves) is treated with forks.

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      That’s a small group of people. Not feminism as a whole. Feminism in general aims at overcoming the patriarchy and therefore creating true equality between the genders. Overcoming the patriarchy also means, that men are liberated from its chains. This means, that men are allowed to cry and show feelings without being judged.

      Feminism is not something, that aims at dragging men down, but eleveting society as a whole.

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        Don’t even say it is a small group. You don’t have to be truthful to these kinds of people.

        Make exaggerated statements just like them if you want to talk to them. Stay on the same level. They don’t understand anything more.

        So no there are no feminists who say that.

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        As I said…

        men don’t universally conform to a stereotype

        Not all men are part of the patriarchy, because some of them are victims of it

        therefore they must all confirm to a different stereotype

        Therefore all men should become feminists

        also men bad

        But men are still the cause of all the evil in the world

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      That isn’t feminism.

      And I should know, I am a feminist and I don’t hate myself.

      That false stereotype is equally as dumb as saying men don’t have emotions.