• Zenith@lemm.ee
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    9 hours ago

    Yeah reading this as a woman is low key terrifying like… if you hate me why tf do you want to fuck me? The idea a person could be so wildly two faced because they’re desperately trying to interact with me in my most vulnerable state is so scary, things like this is why women choose the bear

    This reads like one step away from a DV situation

    • Schadrach@lemmy.sdf.org
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      30 minutes ago

      if you hate me why tf do you want to fuck me?

      Testosterone is a hell of a drug. I’ve known a few guys who have had at least one gf they only stayed with for the sex and were just putting up with her the rest of the time. Those…generally aren’t very good or healthy relationships. Most of them eventually get out of that mindset and (at least try to) find someone they like being with first and also want to fuck besides.

      But then my wife acts shocked that a bunch of women she works with talk like they don’t even like their husbands. All I can think is why marry them then?

      • Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works
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        24 minutes ago

        Often times their husbands were different before their marriage, and probably for a while afterwards, then they slowly got shittier, and shittier