• milicent_bystandr@lemm.ee
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    3 hours ago

    I saw one comment about baking and that reminded me…

    If you let your 6 year-old bake, you don’t teach them oven safety then leave them to it. You do it together.

    The same is probably good for tech and internet. Do it as a together thing. And that means also cultivating good habits yourself. If you sit watching porn all day and writing hate mail on Facebook, telling your niece she’s not old enough for it yet, she’s going to see and want to try.

    What is ((thing)) for? How do we use it? The answers are learnt in watching and in doing it together. I know the internet is famous for children learning all sorts of things by themselves (including good things). But I think for healthy development, this still applies, and when they’re ready for The Great World Beyond With All Its Pitfalls And Evils, they’re more ready.