• Zwiebel@feddit.org
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    5 months ago

    Assuming OOP said ‘retarded’, that doesn’t fit their message well does it?

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        5 months ago

        There is nothing wrong with the word “retard”, don’t let corporations push their double speak.

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          I’ve grappled with “retard” & “bitch” (made a thread about it a couple months ago too, trying to form/reform my opinion).

          Clearly we have to be careful with any messages industry pushes. With that said -

          What do you think about these statements from Special Olympians?

          CC: @[email protected]

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            I appreciate your good faith response. I see and empathize with your perspective. To play devil’s advocate, you can’t control whether a group of people decide, out of the blue, to internalize hurtful language that isn’t aimed at them. The N-word had a very specific target and a very cruel purpose. The word “retard” did not. It basically has the same vernacular trajectory as “moron,” or “idiot.” From medical diagnosis to non-specific pejorative. Why aren’t those synonyms verboten? Because people like to make things about themselves.

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              I literally had an argument with @[email protected] about this a while back where he declared retard as against sub rules but then continued to call the poster a moron. They’re the same fucking word from different time periods on the treadmill of what is politically correct.

              Either both are slurs that shouldn’t be used or both are acceptable.

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                They’re the same fucking word from different time periods on the treadmill of what is politically correct.

                Either both are slurs that shouldn’t be used or both are acceptable.

                That’s not how language works, and unless you go around calling Black folk ‘colored’, you understand that in other contexts. What words are acceptable and what connotations they have change with time and usage.

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                  So moron is acceptable now because all the people impacted by the discrimination are dead, so we just need to wait for the retards to die off before we can use the word again?

                  The same group of people and behaviours are/were described by both words.

                  But we’ve been over this and confirmed we do not and will not see eye to eye on this.

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                    Dude, it’s the euphemism treadmill. You exercise your mind while making other people more comfortable to be around you. Your complaint has existed for hundreds of years, and will only lead to poorer social connectivity. Just hop on and put on some tunes

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                A “moron” was also a medical diagnosis. Historically, the n-word was designed to be cruel and humiliating. The word retard was not.

                If you choose to be offended every time the word “moron” gets thrown around that’s your prerogative.

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                    People who use words do so for a particular purpose. That’s what I mean by design. The n-word had one and only one purpose: a humiliating slur against a group of people.

                    Since this is obviously not the case with the word “retard” or “moron,” etc., I find the comparison obtuse at best and bad faith at worst.

                    Ultimately, people will use terms to call each other stupid. This is inevitable since people are, in fact, stupid.

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              It comes from the medical diagnosis “mental retardation”. It was designed from the beginning to target disabled people.

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            To break down my response to this

            The R-word is EXCLUSIVE

            There are people with high intelligence and those with low intelligence, bandying about with different words will never change that. Intelligence is crucial in social, economic and evolutionary terms. They are correct no one would ever want to be lacking in intelligence because it would only make life worse. There will always be a need for a word to describe someone of lower intellect, or describe an argument or position as being thoughtless, in order to dismiss the person or idea as quickly as possible with as little engagement possible. Preferably while using small words so they understand.

            You can still say they have a room temperature IQ but they might not get the meaning…

            We are someone that is not your kind.

            I agree, and I would not want someone with an IQ of 70 to be in the military, or to be a teacher, or a doctor, as each of those scenarios would likely result in disaster not just for the 70 IQ individual but for everyone impacted by them.

            Everyone has a gift

            Yea no. This “everyone is special” bullshit just isn’t how the world works. The universe doesn’t care about you, the world is a harsh place where the unfit died early deaths until really intelligent people worked out how to increase food production, developed medicines, surgeries and hygiene.

            Retard equates intellectual disability with being DUMB or STUPID

            You only need to look up the etymology and history of clinical usage of both dumb and stupid to realise they were used to describe the same groups of people and behaviours during different time periods. More bullshit on the treadmill.

            I refuse to censor the word retard while moron, stupid, dumb and idiot are considered fine. To censor a synonym of acceptable words, is to put it bluntly, fucking retarded.

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                The word was used as a humiliating slur against a vulnerable group of people. This is indisputable fact. It is a word specifically referring to a group of people, and it was used against that group of people to belittle, demean, and humiliate them.

                Not something I have disputed, in fact I have made this point repeatedly about the word moron.

                The euphemism treadmill stopped.

                There will always be a need in language to describe people who are less intellectually capable so I absolutely disagree with this claim. Retard is simply still the word of choice despite efforts to censor its usage.

                No one is trying to take away your speech. No one is coming for your words.

                Censoring speech is exactly what you’ve claimed isn’t happening, yet it is happening and you are making an argument for the censorship of a word.

                Do you use it because it upsets people?

                Yes. Because I clearly don’t want to have to waste my time on people who are, or are acting, retarded.

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            That is true, if you use it against disabled poeple. I only use it against moronic able poeple who should know better.

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              Honestly, that’s maybe worse. If you’re using it to say something bad about someone else, that means it’s a bad thing and should be condemned. The people who it is actually meant to apply to (in its original meaning) then see them, as a group, as a thing that is insulting to even be associated with.

              It’s wild how hard critical thought is for some people while discussing a word about intelligence…

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      This post reminded me of that old Louis CK bit on not liking the term “N Word” because it transfer the burden of saying the actual word from the speaker to the listener’s brain