how can you be both an insufferable Linux nerd and someone who uses Apple products?
These aren’t irreconcilable. Suffice to say I’m an extra annoying person.
you should be able to just install uBlock Origin or a system-wide ad blocker like AdGuard.
Brave on mobile has per-site JavaScript controls that are quick and easy to access within the browser. I don’t know of anything nearly as good.
It’s not the same as on desktop, especially for iPadOS and iOS, which doesn’t have extensions and does not have an equivalent for Brave Shields (as far as I can tell).