I did the same! It was not jeans but pants that is supposed to look like they are a bit more formal but are more comfortable. From the website did I just pick 3 different colors of the same size but they all fit so differently, and one pair had much thicker fabric, felt more like they went “close enough” and called it a day lol
Depends on what kind of kiss it was, did you kiss because of romantic interest? If yes then yeah that was gay.
Would be funny if kissing someone who tricked you into being the opposite gender (you could even be blindfolded) made you gay haha