• june@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    Dunno if I’m ‘young’ but I did get snipped 3 years ago. No kids for me.

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        8 months ago

        As a woman, I am extremely jelous. I just get “wHaT iF YoU WaNt ChIlDREn?”

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          8 months ago

          As a male who just got snipped after 1 kid and still with her mother. My friends were asking me about if I found myself single and ended up with someone younger who wanted kids. I was actually shocked that was why they didn’t want to do it. We’re all in our 40s and have kids. Personally I have a hard time relating with women who are much younger and would be unlikely to get involved with someone who did want more kids. More importantly, I plan for a future with my partner, not some scenario where I end up single.

        • YIj54yALOJxEsY20eU@lemm.ee
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          8 months ago

          I still get that from every human I talk to, just luckily not from the doctor. He was one vas deferens down when he asked for my motivation.