• Rooter@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    “Other struggling people are not the enemy”.

    Op is jeff bezos alt account.

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      10 months ago

      Disagree. Most servers and bartenders are in favor of tipping culture and want it to stay this way with zero wages and societally enforced tips.

      Yes, the corporations are the enemy, but these other struggling people are on the side of the actual enemy.

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        10 months ago

        Of course they’re in favor of it you idiot its how they make a reasonable living. The people choosing to go to a restaurant are not victims in this arrangement.

        If you can’t afford to dine out then maybe demand your boss pay you more. They’re the ones screwing you, not the waitress at Olive Garden.

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        10 months ago

        Well sure, anyone would. If you give me $20 on a $100 bill, and you were in my section for an hour with 5-6 tables that all had similar bills and tipping percentage, I’d be ecstatic! That doesn’t mean it’s a good system for everyone. Hot girls make the most amount of tips while dudes serving break their back to make 15%. That hot 20 year old server that you had last time you went out to eat goes to Mexico once a month on her tips.

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      10 months ago

      Well because the struggling people are blaming you when you don’t tip. They should blame the restaurant owner. But they blame the diner instead.

      That’s why people take servers/waiters as the “enemy”

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        10 months ago

        How about we all agree that restaurant owners are the enemy? I don’t care that the 20 year old server working for the weekend doesn’t understand the nuance of the labor they engage in. They’re being exploited and you think that they’re the root cause of tipping culture, when in fact, it’s always been the restaurant owners.

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          10 months ago

          I think you’re deliberately misinterpreting what I’m saying. I am saying they should blame the restaurant owner.

          But it certainly doesn’t help the situation when the server is blaming you and being hostile because you didn’t tip enough.

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        10 months ago

        Doesn’t matter who gets blamed, if things were corrupt (correct) the customer would be paying the same amount as tipping that much. Tipping culture just gives the customer a chance to shirk.

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          10 months ago

          Well if you are calling it “shirk” then it’s basically required. If it’s required why even give the illusion of a choice?

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            That’s my point. Tipping culture is stupid.

            Consumers should pay the cost to consume, including materials, operations and staffing.

            It’s not an illusion of choice, it is a choice, and a choice that abuses workers and confuses customers.

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              10 months ago

              The thing is the consumers are paying the cost. The business owners are just taking more of the profits. They just need to pay the workers more.

              And the “choice” you mention is a false one. People can’t really refuse to pay a tip, can they? They’ll get a lot of hostility from the staff (who have been brainwashed to think that it’s the customers’ responsibility). Notice that this isn’t really a thing outside the US.