• rusticus@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    Dude, Hermoso herself said it was non consensual. How can you justify suing HER since it happened to HER. Do you know what she was thinking?

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      My point is, people here pretend as if they know everything what has truly happened. While we are just observers, we do not know actually has been said at that right moment (or do we?). I do not justify anything, never claimed I was justifying anything.

      Certainly he can he an ‘‘POS’’ but I don’t know. I don’t know him that much, do not follow him and do not know him personally.

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        1 year ago

        You can see that he kissed her on the lips and she said she didn’t want or consent to that. What more evidence do you need? Do you think she is lying?

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          Yes, we can see he did that. Yes, she said that afterwards. She showed no signs of it at that moment.

          I’m not saying she’s lying, I’m saying that the people on here pretend to know everything.

          Personally, I’m curious how this goes. What more evidence I want? Nothing. Don’t think there’s more unless we can actually get a video with sound where we hear what both of them say.

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            1 year ago

            So you don’t want any more evidence. So you either believe her or you think she’s a liar. Which is it?

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                No. You didn’t. You said “I’m not saying she’s lying”. That’s not the same.

                Do you believe her statements or do you think she’s lying?

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                  Honestly? I don’t know what to believe. She could’ve as what was called “spontaneous agreement” and later on regretted and now saying she doesn’t want it.

                  Or she did not want it from the start but again how should I know when - I was not there to hear it?

                  I can say “I believe her” and then I’d be wrong. I can say “I don’t and believe the guy” and be wrong. Doesn’t change a thing. You are making this personal just like the other two.

                  My point still stands, people here pretend to know everything while we all were not there hearing it all.

                  So for what’s worth it - I do want to thank you for the respectable discussion. However I don’t like when things become personal in a discussion because that’s when the actual argument and discussion fades away.

                  I hope though, whatever happens, it will be with full transparency and the right person will be punished.

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                    1 year ago

                    When someone in a position of power and authority does something like this to someone who is under their power, it is 100% inappropriate. The person in a position of power is always at fault, ESPECIALLY if that person then accuses the other of lying. This should not be a debate and I’m disappointed in your apparent lack of judgement. Do better.