• AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet@lemmy.world
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    Some couples keep separate budgets, so they can buy whatever they can afford without consulting the other person. But buying your spouse or a kid a $60,000 Christmas present is definitely rich people shit.

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    Absolutely insane the commercials running non stop to get people to do this. The same damn breath these people falling for it will complain about inflation and being poor and barely getting by while blaming the president or some nonsense. Absolutely sick, this society.

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      I got 6% last month on a couple year old used car (I have bought a car since 2005) and I was shocked and the guy said that was one of the best rates he has seen lately. Absolutely insane.

    • 𝔼𝕩𝕦𝕤𝕚𝕒@lemmy.worldOP
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      I have “great” and got told 13% a month or two ago. Didnt know the market was all futzed and asked if i did something wrong. Can you believe I passed on buying lmao

      Have they stabilized?

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        I have “good” and was offered 9% in early October.

        One good sign is that banks are lowering their rates for longer term CDs. I’m seeing 1 year CDs in the 6% range, but a 5 year CD is more like 2%-3%. This means that the banks expect the fed to lower rates in the next few years.

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    Never understood the whole gifting cars or pets to your kid in movies. Even if you can afford it, why would you gift a fucking car like it’s nothing. Oh and don’t get me started on the gifting pets part. If anyone actually dies that irl, they clearly don’t deserve to have pets. You don’t just gift a fucking living being which comes with a lot of responsibility

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    Obviously, the assumption is one spouse supplies all the money, housing, trips, etc., while the other receives adoration and gifts. It’s the huge social stereotype some of us are expected and/or forced to play out.

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    Also pets. Gifting someone a pet does neither the recipient nor the animals any favours unless you know for certain that they both want a pet (and that it’s an actual informed want with all the required forethought and self assessment for both the advantages and disadvantages of having a pet, and not just “a puppy running around my house would be so cute!”) and have the means to support a pet.

    Especially if the recipient is a kid and/or you’re giving them a fish or rodent or some other small cheap animal that is considered low maintainance or disposable. News flash, no pet is low maintainance or disposable and you might as well just step on the animal instead to spare them the suffering because a dumb little kid will kill them slowly and horribly. I see this happen all the time and it pisses me off so much. Pets aren’t toys, they shouldn’t be given to children who can’t even take care of themselves.

    Actually, please just stop giving people animals without their prior input in general. If you truly want to gift someone a pet, you should be involving them in the acquisition process, taking them to the shelter to choose a pet for example, because the personality of the individual animal and whether it’s suited to the personality of the people that will be caring for them is absolutely critical. If you can’t do that but still want to support their having a pet, then see if a shelter will sell a prepaid adoption certificate, that way they can still choose to not go through with it, or just buy them pet supplies if you know for sure that they plan on getting a pet. There are even species agnostic gifts if you don’t know what kind of pet they plan on getting.