• sbv@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    it’s a hard transition to make when we want so desperately to help and are asked not to.

    Listening is helping. It took me a while to get that, but we’re helping just by being quiet.

    • maniclucky@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      Yup. It’s akin to “not making a choice is itself a choice”. It doesn’t feel like it is, but can be equally impactful.