🍹Early to RISA 🧉@sh.itjust.worksM to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · 1 month agoAnon hires a goth chicksh.itjust.worksimagemessage-square165fedilinkarrow-up1694arrow-down116
arrow-up1678arrow-down1imageAnon hires a goth chicksh.itjust.works🍹Early to RISA 🧉@sh.itjust.worksM to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · 1 month agomessage-square165fedilink
minus-squareHonytawk@feddit.nllinkfedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down1·1 month agoLong term virginity is sort of proof that you aren’t likeable enough for someone to have sex with you. It can be a bit of a downer when you realize that. So no, it is important. But it is also important to not give up. Took me til my thirties, and it gave me a confidence boost once it happened. Had to work on myself to make it happen.
minus-squareuntorquer@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·1 month agoYuuuuup. Not letting your sex drive prevent you from seeing someone as the person they are is a big deal too.
Long term virginity is sort of proof that you aren’t likeable enough for someone to have sex with you.
It can be a bit of a downer when you realize that.
So no, it is important. But it is also important to not give up.
Took me til my thirties, and it gave me a confidence boost once it happened. Had to work on myself to make it happen.
Yuuuuup. Not letting your sex drive prevent you from seeing someone as the person they are is a big deal too.