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Cake day: July 24th, 2023

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  • If im feeling very charitable and it’s unclear whether the question is honest they get one answer/reply to show it.

    If they’re clearly baiting/trolling/negative then block is great because I’ll never meet them in real life and they’re not here to engage critically.

    If they show thoughtful criticism then it’s just a matter of whether i have the interest or energy to reply, which i often don’t. If i do I’ll engage as long as they seem thoughtful. The second i sense my mood faltering I’m closing the app. I can’t have any more days ruined by random people on the internet. I’ll most likely forget to reply after that.










  • My dog associates food time with my meals. Food time is food time for both of us, and not based on what a clock says. So i can sleep in on the weekend. Works out since i generally only eat twice a day anyways. But she gets a treat if i have a third meal.

    She used to free feed and maintained a healthy weight. Not anymore 🙃. Having meal times at all has been an adjustment, but she learned over a few days.