• wowsa@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Doesn’t work for me. When I’m enjoying my activities it is just that, not being there with a plan B the back of my mind. I get that this is not what you are saying, but I find it more comforting to keep dating and activities separated.

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      1 year ago

      The trick is, there is no plan B. You go there for fun activities, and friendships and relationships develop naturally.