• protist@mander.xyz
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    2 days ago

    Something like 15 years ago, I was in grad school and my elder boomer father in law told me “when it’s time to find a job you can shave your beard.” Only this wasn’t a beard, it was just me not having shaved for a week. Is that what he would prioritize if he were hiring someone?! I’ve met few people in my life who are less in touch than that man

    • RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works
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      18 hours ago

      That entirely depends on the job and conditions of the beard. In a customer facing position a wildman styled beard might not be appropriate and in my time in kitchens I would refuse to hire anyone whose facial hair wasn’t clean and maintained (beard nets are never optional in food prep).

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          17 hours ago

          Does it take a week for you to have stubble? For me it takes 3 days for mine to be noticeable. I didnt shave daily until my early 30s.

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            17 hours ago

            No, but a week’s growth being “noticeable” is far from a “wildman styled beard” lmao.

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              16 hours ago

              For some it might be? I have to imagine that if Im slow to grow facial hair that others might grow it quickly. I don’t know you or how fast your hair grows

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                  15 hours ago

                  Is English your first language because your response is a really aggressive reaction to a conversation about the rate at which different people grow facial hair.

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      20 odd years ago, getting tired of job interviews and the one time I looked scruffy and unshaven was when they hired me