Police now targeting big crime.

I hope fo you, that your cat has enough sense to be afraid of cars. My Tequilas was more afraid of people than of cars. I also was never able to teach her anything on purpose. She learned to use the cat flap by observing her brother. Tequila was a very headstrong and strange kitty.

I’ve adopted her and her brother from a shelter, which insisted on letting them outside. Here in Germany a “Freigänger” (out-door) cat is considered a happier cat. Tequila herself was very happy and healthy outside for 2,5 years after living inside our flat for 4 years. Inside she was often scared and shy. Since she was allowed to go outside, she seemed a lot more confident and affectionate towards me. Too confident to savely cross the street to the neighbors garden. I knew the risk and I have to live with the consequences. Of course I’m not sure, that it was worth it, now. Sadly nothing will bring her back.

I’m resentful to people who have done me wrong. I avoid those people until they apologize to me or I’m told some kind of drama from there past, which explains their behavior. My behavior hurts me more then anybody else and I’m working on changing myself.

Other people often seem like they don’t acknowledge the good or bad stuff happening in another persons life. E.g. ignoring the daily strain a loved ones death leaves on somebody. They know it happened, but they expect the affected person to be fully functional.