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Cake day: August 16th, 2023

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  • Yeah it’s better than in 1995.

    • Vehicles have gotten much more efficient, quieter, and safer (for the occupants)
    • Electric-assist bicycles
    • Smartphones and fiber internet
    • Making orders, reservations, and appointments online rather than with agents or phone calls
    • Less crime
    • More organic food choices
    • Better coffee roasters
    • More artisan bread bakers
    • More locally made fine beer, wine, and cheese
    • Less air pollution (including cigarette smoke)
    • Better television and movies at home
    • Affordable solar energy, batteries and off-grid living

    I’m sure there more I’m not thinking of. I’d have a hard time going back to 1995.


  • Relating to people in person about online media or TV has always been cringe to me. If somebody is telling me about something they saw I tell them to text it to me. Movies and books are sort of a different story - they have enough depth to generate some interesting conversation.

    It’s much better to relate to people in person about 3D in person things. In order to do that you need to do some of those things. Foraging, baking bread, art, live music, meditation, dance, martial arts, or anything else that happens in person.

    I still pop into Reddit for a few subs and they’re not really that interesting to be honest.


  • Pick something fringe that you have a belief about, like Bigfoot. Look at the evidence, really look at first hand interviews. How many witnesses before it becomes plausible? Do those hundreds of people really get off on making things up?

    You could do this with anything, even western medicine. It takes practice to figure out which part of your understanding was just accepted as truth, and which part you have evidence for.

    The biggest bias that everybody has is thinking that a million people can’t be wrong. That surely some other expert would have discovered it if there was anything there.

    I recently heard of some physics-breaking experiment that had been repeated by a few YouTubers. Two large torus magnets with opposite ends clamped close together. This object falls slower than one of the same mass and size.




  • You are not your thoughts, nor are you your emotions. You are the observer of those things. Somebody presses your buttons, but it is your choice whether or not those buttons fire. For example if a child said some hurtful things to you, would it have the same impact as an adult? I should hope not. What is stopping you from viewing somebody as a child, especially if they are acting like one?

    In addition to cardio, try breathing and cold water. Always breathe through your nose, even when running. Try to breathe through your nose as a cold shower takes your breath away. Or go for the full ice bath. An ice bath tells your body (the producer of anger emotions and chemicals), “hey, I’m in control here, you are not good at assessing threats”. The mind follows the breath, or the breath follows the mind.

    But if I’m being honest I’ve always had a hot temper, and what is really helping me is Lithium. It allows me to observe anger without being overwhelmed by it.