Either they’re not friends or
OP misinterprets their behavior, and they actually are supporting, just not the way/amount OP wants or
“friends” believe OP is at fault and nobody is feeling sympathetic.
I guess they could also just be terrible people that decided to shit on OP for shits n giggles. But I doubt it.
Purple links is a very common symptom
You’re losing friendships by asking for support? Something’s missing here…
He can’t afford it
Lemmy needs private servers