• rockSlayer@lemmy.world
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    If you’re having a day where you really don’t like the idea of going in, then you need to take a mental health day

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      That’s not how it works. “i don’t like it” does not equate to poor mental health.

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        If you’re only taking mental health days when you’re burnt out, then you’re not going to actually help yourself with a single mental health day. There are other signs you need to look for that only you know about. My other signs include a nonspecific dread/anxiety about work without reason, extreme exhaustion, or extreme anger before my shift. Mental health is an “all the time” thing, and shouldn’t be gate kept like what you’re doing.

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          Yes, ofc. I agree with all you said. I only pointed out that “don’t want to” is not the same thing as any of the stuff you mentioned . I don’t want to do lots of things, doesn’t mean I can use mental health as a cop-out. I’ve struggled with depression and anxiety all my life, and people misusing “Depression” or “Mental health” or “anxiety” for everyday-stuff is undermining the real struggles people have.

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    I default to the “I am having vision problems” and leave out the “I just can’t see myself going in to work”. Or the “my vision in life isn’t lining up with works vision”.

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    When did “call in” change to “call out”? And why? You “call in” to work to tell them you will be out.

    It feels like it was in the last 5 years or so, but all the new people (younger than me) at work now say “call out,” and I don’t understand the lexicon shift.

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      you’re calling to get out. calling in sounds like you’re providing a reason to go in that day, which imo makes even less sense

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      Maybe it’s a regional thing but I’ve been saying call out since I got my first job bagging groceries in 2003