• li10@feddit.uk
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    11 months ago

    I get where they’re coming from, but it’s still not great being a guy and only getting vague signals that you’re trying to piece together. Ghosting is also another issue that’s honestly just disrespectful.

    While it may ultimately be those man children who ruin it for everyone, some upfront honesty is generally very appreciated.

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      11 months ago

      While it might feel rough for you, it’s worth remembering that a lot of women have faced very real threats of violence for their upfront honesty.

      If you’re only getting vague signals then maybe that’s the sign that she’s not fully into you.

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        11 months ago

        Yeah, for men the likely worst case scenario is embarrassment, women can get straight-up beaten or murdered