How did you know I was masturbating?
You totally killed the mood.
This meme killed it for me as well, so I had to share.
Thank you, that helps bring the mood back.
So OP should DM you each time something turns them off?
If that’s what they’re into.
While reading Lemmy comments?
Can you say it again but whisper it please
while reading lemmy comments?
Jokes aside there’s really some truth in this. I’m not sure if it’s the dopamine or that I just need to disctract my mind away from the things that makes me anxious but I sure as hell don’t do it because I’m horny. I don’t even remember what being horny feels like.
And no, I’m not one of those nofap/pornfree fanatics. For most people there probably is not an issue there. It’s only when you spend 6 hours several times a week doing something like this that you might start to consider this may not be good for you.
Actually, I do believe it’s true, because I went through a phase like this where I wanted nothing else but sex and I masturbated a lot. Nothing else interesred me, everything else was stupid and boring. Turns out I was depressed, got medication for that, still take it and things just got back to normal.
But, I never understood why a depressed person would want to have sex so much and masturbate a lot… until I saw this, and then it clicked. I probably just needed the dopamine fix because that was the only thing that made me feel good.
Depression and anxiety definitely has something to do with it in my case but what’s weird is that I don’t have any desire for sex whatsoever. It’s 100% just a habit/addiction/distraction. I hardly even get any pleasure from it and without an exception feel absolutely shit afterwards. Then I hit rock bottom and stop doing it for few weeks but as the first signs of healing start appearing meaning I can feel the tiniest amount of horniness again I then relapse and the loop starts all over again.
Been without about a week now, again, and I’m about at the point where it starts getting hard again. By it I don’t mean IT.
Yeah, you’re in a loop. You should try and get out more, when the loop starts that is. There is nothing wrong with masturbating IMO, even if it’s a few times a week, or even once a day, but if you start doing it several times a day, yeah, that is somewhat not really healthy. Sure, you’re keeping your prostate in check (this is mainly why I recommend anyone above 30, 35 to do it regularly), but that’s not the reason why you’re doing it, is it.
For me, it was mainly sex. Had a lot of quarels with my partner back then and makeup sex was the only thing I wanted… it felt weird… I’ve always been agressive in bed, but this time, I felt like I wanted to punish her… I really have no idea what was going on with me at that time, it was a weird period, I didn’t feel like myself at all.
ha joke’s on you, my anti depressants don’t let me masturbate at all
What if I just have ADHD and it’s the only way to generate dopamine anymore
have you met our lord and savior: rearranging your bedroom at 2am
I was scratching my balls and one thing led to another…
How else am I supposed to sleep?
REAL TALK
My man out here with the real questions.
This just makes me sad and need a wank :(
reported for targeted harassment againt me
You ain’t gotta call me out like that
Too real
Mostly because I’m horny but sometimes because I want an easier time going to sleep.
Yes
“Beax ya mea+ ya SocI DePle+c” – A Modern Day Poet
Maybe being depressed is my kink, so both.
she cute
