I had a partner where we could post-sex pillow talk for hours. It was very relaxing, and it’s the thing I miss most about hooking up with them. We’re still friends, but their life got too full and we had to call off romantic involvement.
Which is to say that, yeah, the time involved can be an issue. Maybe one of you needs to step back. The time you do spend with them can still be worth the effort.
It can also be very rewarding.
I had a partner where we could post-sex pillow talk for hours. It was very relaxing, and it’s the thing I miss most about hooking up with them. We’re still friends, but their life got too full and we had to call off romantic involvement.
Which is to say that, yeah, the time involved can be an issue. Maybe one of you needs to step back. The time you do spend with them can still be worth the effort.