• jaschen306@sh.itjust.works
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    18 hours ago

    It’s not about what you do that makes the difference. It’s just having your kin changes the dynamics.

    With my son, I’m imprinting him with everything and teaching him how I want to. The random tasks(like diapers, feeding, etc) that needs to be done is just a requirement for this imprinting.

    My entire life’s from how I was raised when I was a kid to adulthood is solely on my shoulders. Every decision is no longer about me. It’s for them. My entire life’s purpose is to have my kids grow up how I want them to grow up.

    With babysitting someone else’s kid, it’s just a task. A snippet, a small part of the entire process.

    At 47 and my wife recently birthing our 2nd child, my only regret is not having kids sooner.