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minus-squaredontbelievethis@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up5·1 month agoIsn’t it just dead simple in that a mother is caring and gives you the feeling of safety, generally speaking, so you look for that in a partner too? So it’s not that you want to fuck your mom but you look for positive traits in a partner that you parents instilled in you.
minus-squarelatenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 month agoAgreed, it’s that familiarity I referenced! But talking from Freud’s perspective, “if it isn’t about sex, then get out of here” (paraphrasing):))
Isn’t it just dead simple in that a mother is caring and gives you the feeling of safety, generally speaking, so you look for that in a partner too?
So it’s not that you want to fuck your mom but you look for positive traits in a partner that you parents instilled in you.
Agreed, it’s that familiarity I referenced! But talking from Freud’s perspective, “if it isn’t about sex, then get out of here” (paraphrasing):))