• ferric_carcinization@lemmy.ml
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    3 days ago

    It’s not reasonable to assume that everyone has that much control in any situation. Removing yourself from a situation is not always possible. What can you do if it’s caused by your environment, like family, school, etc.?

    Life does have challenges & there always exists someone who can be miserable in a given situation. That doesn’t mean that everything should be normal.

    You can definitely affect some things & you might be able to choose how you see some other things. Still, some things are outside your control or “as they should be”.

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      3 days ago

      I’ve never said that anyone should have that much control. In fact I literally said almost no one can do it. The controversial thing is me even suggesting that it is possible.