• ApeNo1@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    Do they? I thought “I’m sorry” was specifically about sharing how you are feeling vs “I apologise” which is an acknowledgment of your action(s). They often correlate but not always a given.

    Just my 20c…

    Edit: I can’t spell actions apparently.

    Bonus DVD directors cut edit:

    So reading all the cool comments below has taught me that the most ambiguous situation that can arise linguistically, is inadvertently bumping into someone whilst trying to ask directions during a Canadian funeral.

    • agent_flounder@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      If you’re apologizing for something you did, you likely would say either.

      If you’re at a funeral you might say to the survivors of the decedent, “I’m sorry” as in, “I am sorry for your loss”. Whereas saying “I apologize” to them can only mean you believe you’re at fault for the decedent’s passing.

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      1 year ago

      In Canada saying I’m sorry/apologize can’t be taken as an admittance of fault. So may legally vary in place to place, but there isn’t actually a difference.

    • RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      They have the same meaning to me. Either one is interchangable with the other, trying to distinguish them is just semantics/splitting hairs IMO.

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    1 year ago

    It’s important to know the difference between

    Forgive me, Father, for I have sinned

    and

    I’m sorry, Daddy; I’ve been very naughty

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    I’m sorry = I am sorrowful (sympathy or empathy)

    I apologize = I am to explain my action (defense)

    Consider:

    • “I’m sorry you feel that way.”
    • “I owe you an apology.”
    • “What a sorry excuse for a ___ .”

    Meaning, “I apologize” at a funeral is the same as “In my defense…”