• Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    The biggest tragedy of pet ownership is that they just don’t live long enough.

    This is true, but there is no ‘long enough’ unless it is ‘from the moment you get it until you die.’ The pain of losing a dog is just an unfortunate part of having a dog and they just will never live long enough for you to not feel that pain.

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      My sister lost her dog this weekend in a freak accident and everyone in the family - not just her husband and kids - are devastated. He was such an essential part of every gathering.

      He wasn’t just a dog, he was my friend.

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        I’m sorry for your loss. My dog is getting older and I don’t know what my family will do without her when she passes away.

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          There’s no good way to spin it, it simply sucks to lose a pet. Dogs are the best and they become such a strong force in your life.

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            9 months ago

            I believe this is a part of what a dog does to help teach us about life. Giving us joy and companionship while also teaching us about grief and loss in the end.

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        I am so sorry for both you and your sister and her family. Thankfully, all of my dogs have lived a full life and when they end came, it wasn’t a surprise. It is so much sadder when it’s unexpected.

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        I’m sorry. I know your heart is broken and nothing but time can ease it. I lost my cat in January at 15 years old from hyperthyroid related kidney failure. We met when she was a feral kitten and ran out from under a food truck and tried to take me down by the ankle. We bonded instantly. It has me at a heightened state of awareness of the mortality of my two dogs and remaining cat. It hurts like hell and I’m so sorry you lost your friend.

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      9 months ago

      I know what you are saying, but I don’t agree. I’d take one more year with my dog over no more years any day. Breeding all kinds of crazy types of dogs, but never for a longer life is nuts.

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        Would one more year really have been long enough though?

        Longer would be better, sure, but would you have ever gotten to a point where you would have been okay to lose that dog?

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          It’s not about how much is enough, that is a weird way to think about it. Would I have liked to have another year with him? Absolutely, he died too early.

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            That’s literally what the article said, so blame the article. It says, “The biggest tragedy of pet ownership is that they just don’t live long enough.” It’s right there at the top of the post. That’s what I was commenting on.

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      Yep. I can remember this past October when we lost our dog of 15 years, telling myself and my girlfriend that we were never going to avoid this happening to him/us. There was no magic formula or pill or procedure that was going to give him to us forever.

      And while it didn’t necessarily make us feel better about it, it made enough sense that it helped us cope with the loss with better understanding.

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      9 months ago

      they just will never live long enough for you to not feel that pain.

      Well, you can have a dog in your senior years.

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      In America, you can get free coverage if you are broke enough.

      Where are you living? What kind of income?

      And you think dog vaccines are bad because you have other problems? You should be embarrassed for letting your hurt turn into intentionally wishing more pain and death on others.

      I’m sure your father would love to see your love for him turn into pointless hatred for dogs.

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        Backs are notoriously hard to fix. And low coverage often will not cover anything more than physical therapy and an opium addiction.

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        In America, you can get free coverage if you are broke enough.

        Can you tell me who gives broke people free coverage for chemo? How about physical therapy after a serious injury? Mental health care?

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          Medicaid has different income limits for different states. For a family of 3 in Michigan it’s about 2755 per month. If you make less (per household) you qualify for Medicaid. Search “Medicaid Requirements” plus your state. Everything is covered. The 2400ish we bring home a month barely covers our bills, but it’s worth it for Medicaid if you have a chronic health condition (or on our case my spouse, our child, and myself all have serious health conditions). My medication for my pituitary deficiency would cost me thousands a month. My spouse and child have a genetic vascular condition and they need scans every year to make sure they’re not about to die.

          Another thing you can do is a Medicaid spend down. I’m not sure how it is for every other state. But let’s say your limit is 3000 for your family but your income is 4000 and your medical bills are 2000 a month. You pay the difference between your income and the limit (1000), and Medicaid covers the rest. I believe you have to have a serious health issue to qualify for a Medicaid spend down.

          If you are low enough income to qualify for SSI, Medicaid is given automatically (I think in every state).

          In our state of Michigan you apply for Medicaid at DHHS. They have a very easy to use website for a few years now (it was a big hassle before that). Let me know if you have more questions about this.

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              Cherrypicking.

              The point is we are way better off than most nations on healthcare. You could be stuck in Russia where your medical options are get drafted to the front line and killed in your sleep by fellow soldiers over who gets the last soup.

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                Sorry… how am I cherrypicking by proving my point that being poor doesn’t necessarily get you chemo?

                How does it prove your point that, “In America, you can get free coverage if you are broke enough?” Because it seems like it shows the exact opposite.

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                  You didn’t prove that chemo isn’t provided coverage, you provided select times where coverage doesn’t sustain long term.

                  The claim was never all medical bills is covered in the USA.

                  And that has nothing to do with what the previous commenter said that you quoted your response too.

                  It’s nitpicking for holes in a statement made about the place where coverage is. Yall aren’t interested in solutions to “my old man’s back problems.” Yall are looking for a political point to bitch about to justify shitting on a cancer vaccine.